Birthdays, Kittens, and Jello Shots

Tom and I celebrated our birthdays last week, his was on the 9th and mine was on the 14th. Due to the financial constraints of driving across the country and moving into a new apartment, our birthdays were rather low key, but extra special regardless because we actually got to celebrate them in person. Having birthdays in close proximity has always been a part of our friendship and Tom has sent me an e-card on my birthday every year except once. Tom had to work on his birthday, so I gave him his present a little early, it was a toolbox with Craftsman tools, something we could use around the apartment. For his actual birthday, I made cheddar stuffed hamburgers topped with barbeque sauce. I roasted up some potatoes, turnips, and carrots for the side. He pretended to be impressed... in all reality, I can't hold a candle to him in the kitchen.

For my birthday, we ran a few errands to get stuff for the apartment and then brought home our youngest child, Nachos. He's a three-month old orange tiger kitty, and down right ferocious I should add. He seems to have taken a liking to the chaise lounge. Tom's mom and Wendy let us borrow a kitty bed that Nachos had been sleeping in. He hasn't touched it since he discovered the chaise. Dakota is warming to the idea of being a big sister. At first she tried to eat Nachos, but now she just sorts of licks him and watches his antics. It probably helps that we got Dakota a flying chicken to play with the same day we brought Nachos home. I should also add that Nachos is definitely a gemini. He likes to climb on me and Tom and mew. He also likes to attack anything that moves. Tom and I are still looking forward to bring home our oldest. I miss my Cyclone.

As I am now dating a football kind of guy, it was brought to my attention that we are now in NFL pre-season. I have learned that I am a Chicago Bears fan, and I hate the Packers. In fact, if I were to show any sign of loyalty to said Packers, I was told that I would find myself homeless. Tom may not realize this yet, but the same would be true if he were to ever declare loyalty to the Yankees. Anyways, Saturday night was the Kansas City Chiefs first (?) televised pre-season game. Tom and I happen to have an HD tv, so we had his mom, Wendy, his sister, and her boyfriend over for a pre-season get together/birthday celebration. Tom's mom brought some steaks for Tom to cook up and I made french fries. We also had a caesar salad. On the birthday celebration side of things, we had bowls of jello shots which were quite tasty. Wendy made me a three-tiered suncatcher with pictures of Tom growing up. I have a picture of him as a baby, around age 6 with his sister, and at sixteen. It was very sweet, I love it. If anything can be gleaned off of Tom's baby pictures, we are going to have adorable children.

Slumber Party with AUNT Jenny and Uncle Tomma

Today was Tom's first day of a well earned vacation. Originally, we were supposed to be road tripping back to Maine, however, for financial reasons, we have opted to postpone the trip. Part of growing up is realizing that money doesn't grow on trees. Tom and I are going to make the best of it.

The plan for the day was to have a lazy day and to go grocery shopping. Well, we went grocery shopping, but we also invited Tom's mother, her girlfriend, and his two oldest nephews over for dinner. The boys had speghetti o's while the adults enjoyed a chicken stir-fry that Tom whipped up along with peach mimosas (peach champagne and orange juice). I made a strawberry rhubarb pie for desert, to which I had to giggle a bit because several of the people in my apartment at the time had never had rhubarb. :)

We invited the boys to stay over for the night, which gave me the opportunity to get used to my new title "Aunt Jenny." The boys quickly fell into using it, which just makes me smile. I've never been an aunt before. As far as aunts and uncles go, Tom and I are the kind that the kids want to go spend time with. The boys had an absolute ball. They got to use Aunt Jenny and Uncle Tomma's shampoo during tubby time, and I sprayed them with a little of Tom's body spray so they could "smell like Uncle Tomma". Both boys enjoyed playing with my X-Men action figures, and as you can see from the picture above, I gave our budding rock stars some pointers. After tubby time, Tom made strawberry banana ice cream and we watched Robin Hood. I'm really liking being an auntie. Do I have to give the boys back?

New Apartment!

I disappeared for a couple of days because... we moved into our apartment on Wednesday! The week has been a bit of a rollercoaster, but the good news is that Tom and I are room mates and we are just about settled in our new digs. Moving day had a ton of hitches and we were busy moving stuff in and unpacking until well past midnight.

The cable guy arrived first thing Thursday morning to hook up our cable and internet. Tom does all the technical stuffies at work, which is awesome. If I had a problem with anything, I just text him and he can fix it :D There are definitely benefits to dating the cable guy. In terms of service, I have all the premium channels, DVR, international channels, HDTV, and turbo internet for about ten bucks a month. Tom also decided to give me my birthday present a little early. After months of dealing with a laptop that is slowly dying, Tom gave me a brand new laptop, complete with web cam so I can Skype with my mom and sister. It was an awesome evening, I had the Red Sox on tv and boiled dinner on the stove. It was just like home, only Tom came home to me after work instead of having to call me.

The rest of the week has been spent running errands and unpacking. I think that we are just about settled now. We bought a couch and chaise off of one of Tom's co-workers and Tom had a queen sized bed delivered on Thursday. Aside from shelving and a desk for Tom's computer (he is currently using a pile of plastic totes) I think we have all the furniture that we need. I like the apartment. It's just the right size, not too big, not too small. As of now it's not cluttered, and the kitchen is actually big enough to cook in. I love it. I love my room mate too. There are not words to express how happy I am, now I just need to find a job.

Pictures!

My living room... yes, that is a Red Sox game on TV... and the pile of totes is Tom's "desk"

My kitchen! Gas stove! And we both cook! If you visit, we'll feed you!

The potty room

The bedroom, no bedding set yet, but with 90 degree days, a sheet does the job!

His and Hers guitars... well, techinically, his is a bass... but you know

My walking buddy

Getting settled, slowly

Today is my second day in Kansas City... well, I guess I should say Missouri, because right now I'm staying in Independence at Tom's mom's house. I'm adjusting to city life again, and loving every minute of it. For lunch yesterday, Tom and I explored the neighborhood where we will be living. He showed me where the post office is, as well as the grocery store. I can't wait to get my bike out here, everything is really close to my apartment. As a treat, we stopped at the Jeruselem Cafe for lunch. I got a gyro and Tom had chicken curry. He's in love with the stuff, I can't wait to introduce him to Laura's boyfriend hehe. As an appetizer we had, and I'm going to butcher the spelling, baba ganoush (?) which is like hummus but made with eggplant. Quite tasty I should add.

Today I actually got to tour the apartment. I sign my lease tomorrow and we are planning to move in tomorrow evening. I love the place, it's really cute. I would say that it's about the size of the apartment I had in New York, except the kitchen is easily twice as big as that kitchen. It has a full sized gas stove and a little area on the side for a table. There is a pennisula separating the kitchen from the living room, I'll need to get some bar stools so that I can have a breakfast bar. The bathroom is really cute, I have a pedistal sink :D I really like it. It's a first floor apartment, so I have to walk up a total of four stairs to get from the parking lot to my apartment, and my bedroom is overlooking the courtyard. As I mentioned before, the neighborhood is really nice, with little shops and restaurants close by. I also have a park just around the corner, which I will be exploring with Dakota. I hope she likes walking, because I certainly do!

I'm spending the rest of today job hunting. I got an e-mail response to a case manager position I applied for, which looks promising. I'm applying to a few more places today, and then I am going to call a bunch of the places that I applied to before. Then it's off to an undisclosed location to purchase a birthday present for a certain someone who's birthday is coming up...

I'm here!

As planned, I arrived in Kansas City on Sunday night. The remainder of my drive was easy, just long. By the time I pulled into the driveway at Tom's mother's house I was ready to be done driving for a while. The second half of my journey was certainly more interesting than my first one. I've driven from Maine to Buffalo many times to get to Canada, and the little stretch between Buffalo and Cleveland was in the dark so I couldn't see anything. When I woke up the next morning, the first thing that I noticed was the terrain had changed. First it was the absense of pine trees, then it was the realization that the familiar rolling hills of New England had been exchanged for wide, flat expanses of farm land. I thought that I had found prarie, however, a quick text message to Tom concluded that I was in the rich farmland of the Ohio River valley.

I got to drive through several major US cities, which include Columbus, Ohio; Dayton, Ohio; and Indianapolis, Indiana. Indianapolis is a really pretty city, I loved the skyline. :D I also had a bit of a redneck moment when I drove past the famous "brickyard". Then it was on to Illinois. Tom warned me that anything south of I-80 was considered rural Illinois. What he should have said is that Illinois is a huge, flat cornfield with a major US city on top. I was counting down the miles to St. Louis, it was definitely encouraging to see Missouri cities on the highway signs.

I finally reached the Mississippi River about mid-afternoon on Sunday. It was definitely one of the most surreal experiences of my life. I'm a history geek, so stuff like this makes my day. I crossed the Mississippi river a few miles north of St. Louis on the famous Rt. 66. To my left, on the horizon, I could see St. Louis and the gateway arch. It was awesome, and that, combined with being in the same state as Tom gave me enough of an adreniline rush to keep going. I was definitely getting tired of driving at that point.

Missouri is a prarie state, and after spending a week in Wyoming this past winter with my dad, I was fearing for the worst. To my surprise, Missouri prarie is not the desolate wide expanse of Wyoming. Rather, it is rolling hills of emeral green with groves of trees/shrubs all over the place. It was actually really pretty. My favorite part of my drive actually occurred just before I hit Kansas City. Something else I didn't know about Missouri was that they have abolutely gorgeous sunsets, and to add, I was still out in the prarie, so the sky was huge! Some of the brightest shades of oranges, reds, blues, and pinks I have ever seen, and since I was headed west, I was literally driving into the sunset. I could just imagine myself sitting on the front porch swing of an old prarie farm house sipping sweet tea and enjoying the sunset. I think I can be very comfortable here.

I arrived in the Kansas City metro area just as the sun slipped below the horizon, which was a treat in itself because cities are always prettiest at night when they are lit. I got to Tom's mother's house about an hour before Tom got home from work. He literally got home in about 15 minutes, to which someone responded "he never gets home that quick, it's because SHE'S here" that made me giggle. For my first night in Kansas City, Tom made me dinner. He is quite a chef, and I am definetly going to have my work cut out for me convincing him that I am also a fairly decent cook. Tom made me ribeye steak stuffed with feta cheese and portobella mushrooms; on the side he made sauteed cabbage and pierogies. I was in heaven. As I mentioned, his cooking is abolutely amazing, like having a personal restaurant chef... it was also the first food that I had in two days that didn't come from a drive through window. He certainly knows how to welcome a girl to her new home.

Life is a Highway

I spent last night in Medina, Ohio; which is between Cleveland and Columbus. I'm officially halfway done my journey! Yesterday was the boring drive, highlights included driving across New York and the wonderful $18 toll ($15 to go from Albany to Buffalo, then $3 to go from Buffalo to the PA border). As a self-respecting Mainer, I take the New Hampshire toll personally... the New York one is just sadistic. I guess I should also add that I crossed the Appalachian mountains in Massachusettes and drove along the American shore of Lake Erie. Highlights for today include driving through the plains, changing time zones, and crossing the Mississippi River.

My brain is still an absolute mess of emotion. I miss home and my mom. I am beginning to accept the fact that the midwest is nothing like New England, and I'm not liking it. At the same time, in my heart of hearts I know that I belong with Tom, and I should have made this trip years ago. The problem with life is that we are not given an instruction manual. We go through life hoping that we are making the right decisions, but we really don't know until we take the risk and either succeed or fail. It is scary to leave everything that I have known, but the last time I gave into the fear and stayed I got burned (by staying with Andrew). Tom has promised me that everything will be okay. He has never led me wrong in ten years, I have complete trust in him. I just wish that Missouri wasn't so far away.

I apologize if this post is whiney or disjointed. I'll be better once things settle down a bit.